Happy Family First 101 Q003
Do you know anyone like this..
Wake early in the morning. Take bath, breakfast, getting ready to work and straight away you jump into your car and drive to work. At the office, you do your best job, make everyone happy and then off you go back home. By then, you are mentally exhausted, which means your active part of your mind is jammed, and leaves you on to auto mode, your subconscious mind.
Since you are in subconscious mode you tend to do things with less thinking i.e watch tv, outing, staring the ceiling, sleep...etc etc etc. So where do you put in those quality time with your family?
Ask yourself..we only have few hours a day, so spare some for others too:)
3 comments:
Well mikai..
that person is ME! yup, ME!
luckily, i'm not yet married. so,i think i just didn't spend enough quality times with my housemates.
working from 7.30am - 9pm from mon-fri..maybe u can imagine how's my daily routine..hehe
i don't think i want to continue this lifestyle when i have my own family.so, what should i do? change my job? that's the tough part..fuhh
Well the moment you said I can't, you are closing your mind. And it becomes your reality.
Start thinking and ideas will come. For example, you can always make it a habit to call or even send text messages to your family everyday or once a week.
Judging from your working hour, I'm pretty sure you are exhausted at the end of the day, everyday. That's when you need to do something that you can do subconsciously, automatically.
Try find that something..
this is my husband... he has nothing left by the time he gets home... and its starting to tear our family apart.
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